If Two People Are Meant To Be Together, Eventually They’ll Find Their Way Back

Yesterday, I read this beautifully written article on Huffington post. You can read it here. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve loved and lost, but the thing that I identified with most from the article is how truly loving someone changes you. I recently let go of someone I love and it was liberating. Loving himContinue reading “If Two People Are Meant To Be Together, Eventually They’ll Find Their Way Back”

Esther Perel: The secret to desire in a long-term relationship

In long-term relationships, we often expect our beloved to be both best friend and erotic partner. But as Esther Perel argues, good and committed sex draws on two conflicting needs: our need for security and our need for surprise. So how do you sustain desire? With wit and eloquence, Perel lets us in on theContinue reading “Esther Perel: The secret to desire in a long-term relationship”


What if studying tantra could heal our addiction to porn? What if tapping into our natural abilities to experience ecstasy changes everything? I was really nervous when I first realized that I wanted to teach Tantra. What would people think? Would they be offended? Talking about sex is such a no-no. I live in aContinue reading “TANTRA IS THE OPPOSITE OF PORN – LEARNING HOW TO ACTUALLY BE INTIMATE”

Daily Inspiration: OMGYes.com

Omgyes.com You’re welcome. I stumbled across this website after reading an interview Emma Watson did of Gloria Steinem and I can reliably say that its the best thing I’ve subscribed to this year. This website explores specific key ways that different women find pleasure based on extensive new research. The videos are open, refreshingly honestContinue reading “Daily Inspiration: OMGYes.com”

The Definition of Love

Another post from July 2013… it isn’t something I wrote myself, but something I had planned to share. The more I go through my old (and mostly forgotten) draft posts, the more I appreciate my experience of early youth: fearlessly curious and unapologetically adventurous . And as I make my way into my 30s, itContinue reading “The Definition of Love”

Can a Man and a Woman really have a Platonic Relationship?

I just read a really well written article that put forward a really good response to the question above – read it here. I think each one of us has asked ourselves (or been asked) this question at some point in our lives, but until reading that particular article I hadn’t really understood my particularContinue reading “Can a Man and a Woman really have a Platonic Relationship?”

Taking stock: an ode to someone I love.

Okay. I know it’s been a while since I’ve seriously and consistently blogged. It’s not because I haven’t had time, because if I’m completely honest with you, I’ve had shit loads of it. But after a few years of mostly being silent, I have the urge to start communicating again. So I am. Going throughContinue reading “Taking stock: an ode to someone I love.”